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Breath & Shadow

Summer 2018 - Vol. 15, Issue 3

"Instant Relief"

written by

Darla Nagel

I came down with a cold during one semester of college. Having even a simple cold on
top of ME/CFS is worse than miserable. Viruses deplete my energy even more and take twice as long as normal to go away. By three o’clock on February 9, 2012, I’d already given up on doing any homework, cooking, cleaning--anything that involved physical or mental effort. My dinner would be a bowl of cereal, again. The only reason I went to my classes was out of guilt for the money my parents were withdrawing from their retirement savings to help pay for my education.

In my English seminar class, we were discussing how students and faculty spend their
time. Some students admitted that they didn’t put their full effort into their classes
because of their extracurricular activities and jobs. I also didn’t put my full effort into
school, but my reason was medical. The thought saddened me. Money would always be a problem because I wouldn’t be able to work full-time. Plus, I’d have constant medical expenses to pay.

At the end of class, I had a little time before the next bus to my apartment complex
arrived. I sat on a bench around the corner from the classroom, set my backpack on my lap, and put my head down on my arms on top of my backpack. I hadn’t had a full fifteen minutes of rest yet that day, and my custom is to take one such rest period each
morning and afternoon. I decided to pray for five to ten minutes and then catch the bus.

I prayed, Please give me release . . . No, relief. I meant relief. Please give me relief. I’m
ready to give up. I don’t know how this is all going to turn out, but it’s going to turn out
for my good. Help me.

My nose began running and I sniffed. Please.

“Are you all right?” a man asked.


I hadn’t heard him coming. I lifted my head and saw that it was my professor, a thin man in his thirties with brown hair. His office wasn’t this way, so I was surprised to see him.

“Oh, I’m just really, really tired and wanted to rest,” I answered, straightening my back
some and trying to smile.

“Are you not getting enough sleep?” There was his charming British accent.

“Well . . .” I glanced to my left and right and saw no one else around.

That gave me the courage to tell him the whole truth.

“I thought it was you, I wasn’t sure. It’s easy to just walk by,” he said quickly.

“I’ll tell you something about myself. I have chronic fatigue syndrome.”

“Ah, that’s debilitating,” he replied.

So he believed it was a real illness. I remembered his comment on a reading response
in which I mentioned a doctor calling me crazy: “I know what you mean.” I appreciated
that comment at the time, but had never thanked him for it.

“It’s amazing I’m still in school.” My voice wobbled. I couldn’t have looked attractive with my too-long bangs in my eyes and my loose ponytail, and crying wouldn’t help. I hadn’t had the energy to get a haircut.

“I know.” He meant it. “My brother had it. Ten years.” I hunched again slightly at the
thought of spending ten years like this, and he put out his hand in a stop gesture. “Not
saying that you’ll have it that long. How long has it been going on?”

“Two and a half.” It sounded far too long to me.

“Two and a half? Are you on any medicines?”

“Yeah, but they don’t work.” I thought of the antibiotic my doctor had put me on.

“That’s hard. And they’re just now considering it a real illness . . .”

He mentioned the couches upstairs, saying they would be more comfortable if I wanted to nap, and I explained that I had to catch the bus soon. He asked about my diet and whether I’d found any sort of support group.

More important, more than once, he said, “If there’s anything I can do for you, let me

Just stopping was the best thing he could have done, showing me he cared. He walked on, saying he was headed to the library to get some coffee at the coffee shop inside. Astounded and relieved, I stared at the door through which he left. Thank you, Jesus! At once, I remembered what I’d prayed for and realized that I’d experienced an instant yes response to prayer. Then I cried. These tears were more of gratitude than out of pain. And for that I remain truly thankful.

Darla Nagel is a writing tutor and a copy editor of books about business and health. She
has lived in Michigan her entire life and has lived with myalgic encephalomyelitis since
2009. Despite that illness, she earned a bachelor’s degree in English with a creative
writing concentration from Central Michigan University in 2012. She has published
creative nonfiction and investigative journalism. Her blog about life with chronic illnesses
and invisible disabilities at is a major way she works to enlighten
people, especially health care professionals, about the needs of people with myalgic
encephalomyelitis and other overlooked illnesses.

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